Tuesday, February 16, 2016

True stories - Luck

True stories - Luck

He used to think he was the unluckiest person in the world. He was the only one in his whole family tree which included his 2 siblings, who inherited some ancient ancestral gene for thallasemia. He was doomed to 2 packets blood transfusion per month, as long as he lived. Not to  mention a constant worry of iron overload, drugs to prevent that, worry about hepatitis B and C with each transfusion, long queues in OPDs, social stigma, not able to do anything more than mild physical activity etc. He constantly felt he was some sort of waste God created or an error in His program which could not be deleted on time.

Then he met her.....

Although he used to meet a lot of kids at the bi monthly transfusion centre, what attracted her to him was her resilience. She never used to flinch, let alone cry when they inserted the cannula into her veins. She had that resilient "I-will-never-bow-before-my-disease" attitude from the day he saw her. Just that look in her, he recalls, inspired him. He began to see life with more positive attitude. With all his ailments, he worked hard in his academics. Time flew and he went on to do his engineering  and MBA and got a job with a more-than-decent salary. By this time he had mustered the courage to speak with the 'scary lady', as he jokingly calls her. The day he got a job, he bought a ring and went on his knees before her.

Now they have 2 adopted kids, the youngest one an infant, which was in the arms of her mother. Now he feels he is very lucky to have the disease, else he would never have met her, gotten inspired to give his best in everything and get the chance to share a wonderful life with such an amazing lady. They thanked me and left the OPD after their routine checkup. I could see them from the OPD window and couldn't help staring. They were walking with the elder kid beside dad and younger kid in her mothers arm. They were smiling as they were talking, her left hand was inside his, fingers entangled, both of them knowing that the other person will be there, till the very last breath.

God gives you the person you need, not the one you want.

Happy Valentine's Day.

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

True Stories - Belief

True stories - Belief

The setting was ideal for her to get irritated. Ultra-busy Monday Hemat clinic. She had her exams in a couple of months, but because of acute shortage of residents she had to see more patients than usual. Everyone was barging into her room, leaving her no room to breathe, which by the way, is quite routine. To top it off, she was sleep deprived because of a bumpy bus ride, and she was hungry and hypoglycemic because she had, as usual, missed her breakfast

Then came the really old couple. 'Mataji' had a not so complicated lymphoma and potentially treatable, even at her age, and unlike the many male chauvinists that we meet every day, 'Babaji' was adamant and almost eager to get her fully treated. However much she tried, she couldn't make Babaji understand the concept of chemo and follow up. "Although your chemo is once every 3 weeks you need to follow up every 10 days with your blood tests to look for dangerous cell count drop" - was a concept the Babaji had trouble comprehending, even after she explained for a third time. She got really irritated. "Saath mein aur koi nahi hein??" (isn't there anybody else with you??), she asked, the tone more in anger and frustration than concern. The toothless baba in his soft, but loving voice said softly and slowly, "Iske saath sirf do log hai, ek main hoon or abhi, aap hai, hamari beti." (There are only 2 people with her. One is me and now we have you, my daughter.)
Her head jerked up, eyes wide. (Was there tears in her eyes??) Although the crowd in the room including the SR sitting opposite to her started laughing at the unexpected comment, the tone of his voice and look in his eyes, pierced her deeply and tore her heart apart. Regaining composure quickly and hiding her tears successfully, she patiently explained to baba till he understood what was to be done. Before he left, she asked Babaji to meet her personally at the next follow up, without the queue and gave him the most sweetest of smiles as Babaji thanked her and left with his wife.

"Why did you ask them to meet you personally next time? Wouldn't that prolong your OPD even more?? After all you are exam-going, aren't you?”, asked the resident sitting opposite to her.

"Oh... That's alright, How could I not do at least that? After all....",
she paused for the tiniest of moments...

"I'm their daughter."