Tuesday, October 27, 2015

True stories - Animal lover

True stories - Animal Lover

Prologue: I heard this amazing story today and although it sounded totally unbelievable, the person who said it, said it with such conviction and fire in her eyes that I was almost inclined to believe her. I had to write it down, lest I forget the intrinsic details she put in, which cannot emanate from someone who is cooking up such a story. So here goes.

Final year mbbs. Our campus looked wet and green and very beautiful as usual. I will miss this greenery when I go back to north India, I thought. The campus had cute dogs, an occasional peacock and parrots. Even the ubiquitous crows were not too noisy. But what I loved most were the squirrels. They were small, beautiful and always playful and running around, never disturbing or destroying stuff. I was just in love with them, but I noticed that a lot of my hostel mates were too. One particular squirrel was always in our corridor. This one had one of its stripes extending into its head and hence somebody had named it "Ramu". Many of the girls in my corridor were too fond of him and kept feeding him stuff. He was very playful and hence quite attached to many of us.

I was on my way back to my hostel room from another boring lecture when it happened. I was walking through the decently lit hostel corridor when I noticed Ramu running around in the wall. Suddenly a loud cracking sound followed by a few sparks and the whining of the squirrel  startled me. I turned back and saw the almost lifeless Ramu lying on his back, and after a few writhing movements he became still. I was shocked and ran towards him, but before I could get there another person was already on the spot. She was the quiet girl of our batch, always alone and to herself, never offering her opinion about anything. She was the last person you would expect to jump up to do any task. I never expected her to have such compassion mixed with presence of mind. She was on the squirrel like a flash, and felt for a sign of life on the squirrels chest with her thumb. Sensing none, she locked her fingers together behind the squirrels spine and began giving chest compressions to the poor little thing, using both her thumbs. A CPR to a squirrel!!! I didn't know what to say, do or think. But one look at her face, that determination on the teary eyes and you would dare not interrupt, let alone mock at her attempt. She continued for a minute or so and suddenly the ACLS God reminded her something and she suddenly removed her plastic ball point pen from here pocket, removed both it ends and the refill, to obtain a thin hollow tube. She stuck it into the mouth of the fallen angel, and blew into it. Mouth to mouth to a squirrel??? Now I've seen it all, I decided. The torso of the squirrel did rise a bit, to her credit, and she continued her ? CPR. After another couple of minutes, somebody had the guts to ask her to stop. She did stop and watched expectantly for any sign of life. Life's not like Bollywood movies, so, there was none. For a minute she sat on that floor, on her knees, above our dear Ramu, now with a pen down his throat, her tears flowing freely onto the floor. Then she slowly removed the pen, and then carried the squirrel to the hostel park. She buried the soft fluffy guy near the flag post without any word. Everybody was too stunned to react and slowly started dispersing. I however, stayed with her throughout her endeavour, but didn't have the conviction to help. After the burial, she got up and left, her eyes now red and puffy. I gave her a soft pat as she passed me and she tried to manage a weak smile.

From then on, I managed to speak with my new friend almost daily and ensured that she never stayed lonely or quite. Not when I was around. Truth be told, she was amazing company, her quite ideas and concepts of the people and the world were too good. We got along very well and became the best of friends. Even on the last day of college, when she left the hostel with her parents, I walked her to the gate and she gave me a tight hug and promised to be in touch. I tried my best not to shed any tears. I succeeded, at least till she left. I walked back to the hostel thinking of all the happy moments I spent with her, resolving that we will always be in touch. Even though my vision was blurred by the tears, I did not fail to notice the handful of freshly plucked jasmine flowers near the flagpole.

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

True stories - Message

True stories - Message



My consultant, the undoubted favourite of all medicine residents, in his usual spontaneous talkative self, said this cracking sentence during rounds today.

It took us a minute to comprehend and for the message to sink in. But you can't agree with him more.

" How happy you are, at any point of your life, is inversely proportional to the distance between where/whay you are now and where/what you aim to be."

Complicated but path defining. 

And that's why we love him.

Belated happy bday sir.  (15/10/15)

Sunday, October 11, 2015

True stories - Beauty, right in front of our noses

True stories - Beauty, right in front of our noses

He was on his way home, aboard a flight from Chandigarh. Just after the flight took off, he spotted it. The tall grey monument, looked similar to the Qutub Minar in shape. 'Now how come I've never heard of such a tall monument so close to Chandigarh', he wondered. He let it go after a while and reverted his concentration back to the air hostess. 1 week later on his way back, return flight about to land around 630 pm, he noticed the same monument again. This time, it was lit up with flood lights and looked even more beautiful. He asked his co passenger whether he knew about the building but got a null response. Determined not to let it go this time, the travel freak in him enquired about the building to all his local friends and colleagues. Nobody knew about it and half the people thought he was crazy. The only person who believed in him was his best friend in Chandigarh, but he was not a local, although the friend did share his curiosity.

More determined now, he attacked Google with a zest previously reserved only for mutton biriyani. 'Monuments near chandigarh' in the 'images' section got him what he was looking for. He was surprised to know its historical importance. More surprised to know its proximity from PGIMER, his place of work. His friend, his eternal co-believer in the Incredible India (the grass is not greener abroad) theory, joined in his excitement. His friend used his contacts to borrow a car, and off they were.

Net result of never ending persistence and undying curiosity - A wonderful evening spent with amazing company in a place which fills your heart with its sheer elegance. Along with the beauty which arises when the soul is satisfied.

What more can you ask for??







At Fateh Burj with  Arjun Lakshman​

FYI - Fateh Burj is the TALLEST Minar in India, just 15km from PGI. An everlasting memorial of the Sikh bravery, resilience and unity. Awesome under the lights in the evening, only negative that they didn't let us climb up to the top. Go for it guys.

#IncredibleIndia #thegrassisnotalwaysgreenerontheotherside

Saturday, September 26, 2015

True stories - 4Grandpa chronicles

True stories - 4Grandpa Chronicles

One of Muthassans favourite hobbies was cleaning out the "store room". The one outside the TV room, before you reach the terrace with the recliner swing. It contained Muthassans memories. His old books, his old shirts and dhotis, undamaged, just too old, but too close to his heart to be thrown away. The most important component of his store room were his old photographs and its negatives. That's the reason why he cleans it out, once in a while, so that he can see all those again, recollect a lot of memories, and that makes him very happy and content. We cousins liked to help him whenever possible, because we will surely hear a story or two and probably get our hands on a rare and treasured photograph of our parents or their cousins. Those were wonderful days.

It was one of those school vacation days where all of us where helping him around with his store re-assembly work, moving things in an out, changing things from one suitcase to the other, when this happened. A cockroach suddenly appeared and scampered towards us. My girl cousin, moved out of the way and suddenly we all hear this shrieky girly squeal, that actually jolted us more than the cockroach itself. I think even the cockroach got scared hearing the noise, that it took of and flew out of the store. Calm was restored but what amused us was the source of the shriek. It was not my female cousin, but it came from the the biggest of us all, my tall well built male cousin (who went on to become 6 foot / 100 kg), who, even after the cockroach had flown away, looked pale and sweaty. Group laughter followed and all of us cousins started to make fun of him, imitating his girly squeal and comparing it with his body size and masculinity. He was clearly becoming embarrassed. Grandpa seeing this, came to his rescue. " I guess he just proved that he's the purest Brahmin of us all.", grandpa said. 

Laughter ceased, taunting stopped, curiosity came up. "How is that??", I couldn't stop myself from asking, jealousy predominating in my voice at the compliment given to him. Grandpa smiled a deep satisfied smile and said, "Its the same reason why Karna got cursed by Lord Parasurama. You kids know that story??" One of the kid cousins offered, " Isn't it because he lied about being a Brahmin to learn archery from Parasurama??". Grandpa continued, " yes, that's the reason. But how did Parasurama find out, that Karna wasn't a Brahmin??" None of the kids knew the answer, my shriek cousin was slowly beginning to smile. I could vaguely sense where this was going. Grandpa settled himself on top of a trunk, ready for the story, the kids gathered around him, me and the 'true Brahmin' cuz standing by the door of the store. 

"One afternoon Parasurama was taking a nap on the ground, head on Karnas lap. Karna was then bit by a wasp. The bite was quite painful and the wasp was dark and scary, but Karna suffered the pain and did not move, as he did not want to awaken his Guru from his nap. The blood from the bite made his clothes wet and woke up Parasurama, who saw that  his pupil was bleeding but hadn't made any movement or noise to protect himself. Parasurama immediately knew that the boy wasn't a Brahmin, as a true Brahmin would never stay still/ silent on the sight of a wasp, let alone suffer the pain of its bite. Now you know, why I am not amused at the noise that he made, being scared of such things is inherently in our genes from time immemorial." 
Grandpa finished his story and walked away to his room, giving a small pat on my hero cousins shoulder. He looked content, gave a mini shrug as if it was everyday business being a true Brahmin, and proceeded to work, but carefully avoiding my eye. The kid cousins never made fun of him and actually gave him a little too much respect than warranted, from then on. 

I don't know what's more amusing; a giant cousin who shrieks like a baby, or a kickass grandpa who prevents his grandchildren from undue embarrassment by quoting stories from the Puranas. :-)

True stories - 3Grandpa chronicles

True stories - 3Grandpa chronicles

Muthassan loved watching sports. He thought of soccer as too violent for his taste but loved to follow tennis and cricket. I'm sure all the cousins (his grandchildren) have watched at least a game or two with him, and knew that his favourite tennis player was "Naadaan" - i.e. his mallu pet name for Rafael Nadal. 

So I was at Ammath for my summer vacations when there was this cricket match one day between India and Australia. Muthassan saw me glued to the set, waiting for the toss, and told me to inform if something significant happens while he went to the other room to iron his clothes. (Yes, Muthassan loved to iron his own clothes and dhotis, even at the age of 90..)

Australia started batting and in the second over Irfan Pathan trapped Mathew Hayden in front of the wicket. I was pretty happy and came rushing to Muthassan and told him. "He's gotten him out LBW!!".

"Who??", he asked. "Irfan Pathan", I replied. "Is Irfan Pathan out or did he get someone out??", Muthassan asked, confused.
I understood that he did not know who was batting and cleared the confusion.

Muthassan then said, "You should be specific in what you say and tell the most relevant things first. Don't you know the way Hanuman gave Lord Sree Rama news of finding Seetha??" 
I was very curious now. " I don't know Muthassa.... What did Hanuman say???", I prodded.

Muthassan smiled gently and began his story. "You see, Lord Sree Rama had sent his monkey troops in all directions in search of the missing Sita Devi and, having the most trust in Hanuman, had given him his signature ring. Hanuman spotted Sita Devi in Lanka, spoke with her and was rushing with her symbol to Lord Sree Rama to give him the happy news. On seeing Lord Sree Rama from a distance, you know what Hanuman said excitedly??" 

Muthassan paused to catch his breath, (I was already holding mine!!) and also to increase the suspense of the story.

"Hanuman said, 'Sighted!!! Sighted, Seetha Devi has been!!!' instead of 'Seetha Devi has been sighted.' ( 'Kanduuu.., nyan Seethaye.....' instead of 'Seethaye nyan kandu')

He did not want to delay the most important part of the news by even a few words / seconds.", Muthassan concluded and walked off to see the rest of the match but not before nailing it. 

"The Puranas are not just the story of God. They are a way of thinking, they are a way of life."



True stories -2Grandpa chronicles

True stories -2Grandpa chronicles

I was back from my trip to Banaras and I was telling in detail about the place to muthassan, the Ghats, the stunning beauty of the Aarti puja on the Ganges and the absolute inner peace that the place seems to offer.

He was nodding his head, listening intently and I knew he was reminiscing his own memories of the trip he made to the same places many years back.

"Did u go to Sankat Mochan temple?", he asked me. 

"No Muthassa", I replied. "I didn't have enough time to go there."

"I had this interesting experience when I went to Sankat Mochan.", Grandpa began, with a hint of a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye. I could sense a very interesting story coming up, so I rushed to the seat on the floor next to his feet by the side of his recliner and prodded, "What was that, please tell me."

"When I went to the SM temple with your Muthassi, there were monkeys all around. We were warned not to feed the monkeys and your Muthassi was at her most irritable, hiding all the little eatables which we had inside her bag and shooing them off ferociously. I on the other hand, got a banana and offered it to the nearest monkey that approached me. 

The monkey took the banana, moved away and started eating it. It peeled the banana in full in one go and put the whole thing in, chomped on it and swallowed it, all within a few seconds.

You are not going to believe what happened next.

The monkey went to the nearby drinking water tap a few paces away. He (HE, was the word Muthassan used, not IT, I noticed. Avan - was the exact word) opened the tap with one hand, drank some water and then scampered off, but not before carefully "CLOSING" (!!!) the tap completely. Such a polished behaviour from Avan I never ever expected to see. Now you know why I believe the lower animals are our forefathers in rebirth.", Muthassan concluded.

He stood up to leave before he hit the home run.

"Kunje....Until one has loved an animal, a part of ones soul remains unawakened." 

And he walked away but not before making my life brighter richer and much more meaningful.



True stories - Soul

True stories - Soul
My fiancĂ©e doesn't believe me when I say Kripaharan, sitting in the crowd, wept like a baby when our team came second in the TCS quiz by a point during our 12th standard.
My sister can't understand why Somu the giant (Sreenath), cried his heart out seeing his classmates forfeit the St. Thomas school fest to honourably settle an inter class dispute.
My cousins can't imagine Jacob being hung out of a third floor window of Std 11 for making a fool out of seniors but still remained their favourite junior.
My mom doesn't agree to Robin and Ebi maintaining the best of friendships even after the latter literally knocking the teeth out of the former in a Comp FC vs FC Bio football match.
The society does not approve one of my classmates, co owner of a firm, offering a job to another classmate, a college dropout, and still think he's over-qualified for the job.
My college-mates can't imagine the fact that the first person to get placed from the batch, that too in a prestigious national law institute, was the least studious. He is currently on a soul searching mission in the Himalayas.
Nobody is this whole wide world believed me when I told them about our farewell, when all 43 of us grown up men broke down while taking that candle walk meeting all our teachers.
People don't understand us Loyolites. I don't expect them to. Bcos Loyola was never just a school.
Loyola is an emotion.
Loyola is love.